Who we love

Why do we love those who don't love us back? Actually they don't love us the way we want them to love us. I think that is a big part of the problem. We have a distorted view of what it is to be loved. When the people in our lives don't love us quite right we tend to go crazy. It's actually the going crazy that is the real hint that something is off in the way we want to be loved. It's really not "them" that is responsible for our grief, it's the way we perceive things.